Since 1905, Family Services has been buoyed by a belief that healthy communities begin with creating, and supporting, healthy families. For over a century, the nonprofit has been addressing the social and economic disparities faced by families and children across Forsyth County and providing relief and response to critical community issues — evidenced by the ongoing need among victims of domestic violence for safe housing following a crisis.
“Family Services is the largest provider of domestic violence and sexual assault services in Forsyth County, and under our umbrella of services is a crisis shelter that operates 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year — and that facility is almost 100 years old,” said Michelle Speas, chief operating officer of Family Services Inc. and executive director of Family Services Foundation. The board of directors has voted to move forward with a capital campaign, with the goal of raising $10.8 million.
“It's time for the community to think about a different long-term solution for this facility,” said Speas.
Breaking the cycle of violence against women and children is a collaborative, community-wide effort, she said. Last year, thanks to a generous grant from the Kate B. Reynolds Charitable Trust, the nonprofit convened a conversation among survivors, health care practitioners and community partners aimed at better understanding the needs of Forsyth County residents.
“Every community is different, and ours requires a very flexible safe-housing facility,” said Speas.
The shelter sees people with a range of needs — some needing several nights of care, and others requiring lengthier stays of 90 days or more so they can get back on their feet after experiencing domestic abuse. The current facility has dormitory-style housing with shared bathrooms and is antiquated at best.
“The current setup is not considered a best practice, particularly for delivering trauma-informed care for individuals actively fleeing a domestic violence situation,” said Speas.
The crisis shelter relies on the faith-based community and support from local foundations, corporations and individuals. For instance, Leslie, a survivor of domestic violence, had to travel across seven states to get away from her abusive relationship.
“Leslie entered the crisis shelter and was able to start putting her life back together free from abuse,” said Speas. A Family Services victim advocate case manager played a critical role in helping Leslie, who was sleeping in a car with her three children when she called the nonprofit’s 24-hour crisis line. With help, she was able to build the confidence to move forward in life.
Last year, Family Services provided 7,903 nights of safety in their shelter for victims of domestic violence (which included 103 adults and 86 children); the crisis line handled 676 calls. To continue serving victims of domestic violence, the shelter is seeking donations for its needed upgrades.
Speas reiterated that domestic abuse is one of the most complex and damaging assaults anyone can endure. And home can be one of the most dangerous places for women and children.
“The more people know about abuse and violence in the home, the more effectively we can work to prevent it together,” Speas said.
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